connection lost problem

hlo i want a help i die because my internet is so lagging so plz i want my stuff plz help me and i just go in nether and i died plzz help me to find my stuff back.FULL NETHERITE ARMOR AND TOOLS AND ELYTRA ALSO

https://community.lksmp.fun/thread-45-po...tml#pid162

if i didnt join server it is possible to get my stuff back? how long should i didnot join

if i didnt join server it is possible to get my stuff back? how long should i didnot join

Please read it carefully. 
You are not allowed to ask for your items back after dying this includes dying from connection lag or any other reason.

The only exceptions are:

• If there was a confirmed server bug,
  
• Or if someone on your trust list stole items from inside your claimed area.